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The Resolution Solution
This week, so many people are making New Year’s resolutions—promises to lose weight, drink less, get to the gym more, reduce screen time, or save money. Often, these resolutions come from an inner voice saying that something is wrong with us. And more often than not, they fizzle out by February. I see this pattern again and again as a mental wellness professional. Whether I am facilitating transformational retreats, offering psychotherapy, or presenting at mental health con
Pamela Hayes
Dec 30, 20254 min read


The hidden costs of connection (emotional, logistical, and financial) Why aren't we investing in belonging?
There’s a saying I’ve seen circulating online: “Everyone wants a village, but no one wants to be a villager.” Obviously it is in the Zeitgeist because it speaks to something many of us are feeling. It can be interpreted in multiple ways, but here is how I see it: We crave community, yet no one is willing to put in the time, energy or money. Because it feels overwhelming, inconvenient, or out of reach. I NEED community. And for a long time, I’ve been asking myself why it fe
Pamela Hayes
Dec 20, 20255 min read


Sixteen Hours in Coach vs. Two Minute Sprint: Which Feels Worse?
I’m sitting on another ten-hour Delta Air Lines flight—this time headed to Honolulu, Hawaii for a two-day layover before continuing on to Australia (another ten hours). Surprisingly, this one doesn't feel so bad. Maybe because last month I survived a sixteen-hour flight to Johannesburg, South Africa. Between these two marathon trips, I was back home in Atlanta, settled into my familiar morning routine—meditation, coffee, gym. At the gym (I go to Orangetheory Fitness ), m
Pamela Hayes
Nov 5, 20253 min read
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